Dating life can be frustrating when… you send a message with no reply, haven’t gone on a date in awhile, or receive mix signals from someone you admire. And you wonder when will this ever change? When will I land a date? The emotions we face when it comes to dating can be overwhelming and get the best of us.
Do you believe in taking a risk? It can be scary, yet rewarding when you create new dating habits.
When old habits aren’t getting you what you want, then you have to do something you haven’t done. You might be thinking…Eek! However, sometimes its about making the littlest tweaks so you learn what works and doesn’t work for you when it comes to approaching love. A few recommendations that may pertain to you are: refreshing your online profile, shifting your energy and mindset, adjusting your communication style, and stop giving those attention who don’t appreciate yours and give in return.
Refreshing your online profile is the fundamental to practicing natural attraction.
Let’s talk about how you appear online to others. And if your not one to date online or already seeing someone, then skip to the next suggestion! Your online profile is how you market yourself to captivate the attention of a significant other. Your images should reflect the lifestyle you live in a genuine manner. Also, avoid wearing sunglasses or hats in every image as this appears you are hiding your identity and seem untrustworthy. As for your bio, keep it intriguing on how you can share it with a love interest. Make it inviting for others to join you on your next adventure.
Shifting your mindset and energy can inspire others to want to be with you.
For starters, your mindset will dictate how the relationship will grow or dissolve. If you go into the dating game with a negative perspective or your foot in your mouth, you are bound to falter. Our mindset and energy runs the show. When you have a positive mindset, you are bound to get positive results. Your energy is infectious and others will want to experience it too.
How you communicate with a significant other impacts the outcome of your relationship.
When it comes to communicating with a potential love interest, your tone of voice and the types of words you choose will take your further than you may think. Its important to really dive in when getting to know someone as relationships begin by “relating” to one another. At any moment when words are exchanged that upset you, learn to ask more questions to understand their thoughts behind their words. It may be painful, yet don’t let harsh words hold you back. Invest into the context until you have a clearer perspective. Do you remember that saying in grammar school: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me? Well keep that in mind next time someone says something that doesn’t still well with you. Instead of getting upset, learn more about how come they have expressed those feelings and the choice of words they used.
New habits can be hard to create, but practice makes perfect.
Creating new habits gives you power to see what will work for you and what won’t work for you. You already know what’s not working, so try something new. Not only will you start seeing change, but you’ll feel less frustrated and more confident in your dating approach. And if you need a few pointers on how to get started, contact us we got you covered!
Jillian and Jan