One minute things are hot and he is all about you, then the next he is distant. You’re beginning to doubt whether or not he likes you.
And, you’re even starting to question yourself and where your life is headed. Wondering if you’re worthy of a healthy relationship and why he isn’t being consistent. Your insecurities are slowly creeping in and destroying your inner peace.
But…the truth is when a guy is giving mixed signals it has nothing to do with you and most likely everything to do with him.
Maybe he doesn’t value communication…
Maybe he has commitment issues…
Or, maybe he recently got out of a long-term relationship…
The bottom line, stop making excuses for him.
If he likes you, he will show you in more ways than one and you won’t be questioning the connection, or more importantly yourself.
Here Are 15 Signs He Is Serious About You:
1.He Prioritizes Date Night
He plans a date night with you weekly regardless of life’s responsibilities. He values quality time and makes sure he gets to spend an evening with you every week. When a guy makes an effort to plan dates with you, it shows he genuinely likes you.
2.He Shares How His Day Was With You
After a long day of working and fulfilling his life purpose, he still desires to make it a point to share it with you. Also, he cares to inquire about your day because your happiness is important to him.
3.He Consistently Supports You
He is endlessly curious about your personal interests and drive in life. He supports your career accomplishments, your passion for painting, and even joins you for yoga on Saturday mornings. He truly wants to be there for you through the ups and downs.
4.He Follows Through On His Word
He doesn’t just talk a big game, he walks the walk. He keeps his word and follows through with his actions to show you how important you are in his life. A man with integrity is a man you can generally trust to have your back and rely on as a great partner.
5.He Makes Future Plans With You In Advance
His best friend’s wedding is coming up in two months. He extends the invitation to you as his date. When a man makes plans with you in the future it’s a good sign he wants to stick around and keep you in the picture. Introducing you to his inner circle is a clear sign he values you in his life.
6.He Brings Up Getting Off Dating Apps
He no longer wants to play the field by making you a priority in his life. He has both feet in and ready for the next chapter as a couple.
7.He Is Never Too Busy To Make Time For You
He might travel five days a week for work but no matter what he creates time in his schedule to spend it with you. Keep in mind no one is ever too busy, it’s a matter of priority.
8.He Tells Truth No Matter How Difficult
He may not be proud of the things he does on occasion or the fact that he is embarrassed by losing his job, but he is honest about it. He values cultivating a trustworthy bond with you because he sees you in his life long-term. He appreciates transparency as it builds a solid foundation for a growing relationship.
9.He Makes Solid Plans In Advance
He doesn’t plan dates last minute unless he’s feeling spontaneous outside of your normal date night. He asks for your schedule in advance to coordinate what works best for you both to spend time together. Giving his time is the most valuable thing a man can do for the connection.
10.He Accepts Your Flaws and Withholds Judgment
He knows you’re not perfect and doesn’t expect you to be because neither is he. In fact, he likes your unique quirks and personality as that what makes you different from all the rest. From the way you laugh to how clumsy you are, he adores you from the inside out.
11.He Consistently Pursues You
When a man desires to be with you, he will show you through his actions. He will consistently pursue you every day letting you know you are a part of his lifestyle. There’s not a day that goes by that you aren’t on his mind.
12.He Never Goes A Day Without Communicating
In the early stages of dating, you may not hear from him every day. However, once he gets to know you, you’ll begin hearing from him more consistently every day. If a week goes by and you haven’t heard from him, then more than likely he’s not that into you. And if he happens to reach out again, it is because he is looking for validation and quick attention.
13.He Makes You Feel Safe
You never have to wonder where he is or when you’ll hear from him next. He reassures and communicates with you on a regular basis ensuring you can trust him and feel secure in the connection.
14. He Values Your Perspective
When a man asks for your opinion on how you would handle a situation, then he values your perspective and respects what you have to say. If you can show him you add value to his life more than likely he’ll be sticking around.
15.He Is Transparent About His Past Relationships
He doesn’t have anything to hide when it comes to his exes. Whether or not he is still friends with them, he lets you know where he stands to make you feel comfortable.
While every relationship is different there are certain fundamentals to cultivating a healthy relationship that allows a connection to grow and provide fulfillment. If you’re feeling uneasy or something is off about his intentions towards you, then trust your gut on this one. He may very well want to keep his options open. And, how to do you know? By establishing your relationship values. Click the link here for a quick assessment and clarity call.
Jan & Jillian
The Love Twins