Breakups are never easy, especially when you saw your future with him. And, while every love story may not end in how you hoped, you still have your life to live. Self-love is the best medicine for heartache.
Here Are 21 Quotes That Will Have You Feeling Resilient And Add A Little Sunshine To Your Day:
1.You May Have Broken My Heart, But Not My Spirit
While it’s easy to wilt away into sorrow after going through a breakup, the best thing you can do is focus on you. Get out of the house and do what fuels your spirit. Set it on fire and ignite your heart again!
2. I Don’t Hate You. It’s Worse…I Feel Nothing When I Think Of You
Sometimes the best thing we can do to heal is to become completely indifferent to what hurt us. There is no need to hate someone when you take can the high road and keep on living for you. Hate gives them power, being indifferent gives you power.
3. In Case You Were Wondering, I’m Done. I Know What I Need And It’s Not You.
All relationships teach us something. They either teach us what we want or what we don’t want, but the only way to know is to go through the experience. Knowledge is your superpower.
4. You Saw Me As An Option, But I Know My Worth
If the person you are dating is unable to see your value and make you a priority, then you have did yourself a favor by letting this relationship go. You deserve to be treated with respect and appreciation.
5. You Are My Past, But You Won’t Be My Last
This relationship may not have worked out, but doesn’t mean it will be your last. Never give up on your own relationship goals because one person couldn’t meet your needs. Letting go of the past will allow you to find love again. Your happiness comes from within, not him.
6. My Silence Has Been Granted
Not every action will deserve your response. You cannot control how others treat you, but you can control how you respond to it. And, sometimes the best thing you can do is remove the toxic energy from you life and stay silent.
7. Peace Is Without You
If the person you are dating is causing you pain, then you may need to ask yourself is it worth all the turmoil. Sometimes relationships don’t work out for whatever reason and the price of your peace is worth more than the headaches.
8. I Never Knew How Much You Weighed Me Down Until I Felt The Release Of You
Toxic relationships can go around and around in circles with nothing ever being resolved. Sometimes the best thing you can do for your mental health is release yourself from this heavy weight that is holding you back. Your heart will heal and thank you later.
9. You Were My Lesson And A Blessing Disguise
When it comes to your relationships, you never lose.There is always something to gain from the experience. And, while the pain may seem unbearable at the moment eventually you will come out on top and realize it was all a blessing in disguise.
10. Never Love Someone So Much You Forget What You Deserve
It can be easy to get wrapped up in loving someone so deeply that you forget to love yourself first. Healthy relationships can only thrive when both partners fully love themselves independently while emotionally supporting each other interdependently.
11. Dreams Do Come True And I’m Better Off Without You
If someone isn’t giving you the respect you deserve, then you are better off without them. It’s better to be single than to be in a relationship that is anything but heartache and unfulfilling.
12. I’m No Longer Drunk On Your Poison
If you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist then you first hand what it’s like to be drunk on their poison. From their selfish ways to their toxic lies you are better off sober, aka single.
13. The Years Of Tears Are Over. It’s Officially Drought Season.
If the relationship is causing you more tears than cheers, does it really make you happy? Sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on to find your smile again.
14. I’m Finally Free To Be Me
Not feeling like yourself in your relationship? You may have been experiencing emotional abuse if you couldn’t be your genuine self around your partner. Letting go will allow you to attract someone new into your life that values you for you.
15. I’d Though I’d Miss You, But I Miss Me More
Sometimes it’s best to cut ties and emerge from your cocoon into a butterfly. Taking care of yourself should be your first priority in any relationship. Love yourself enough to know you deserve the best.
16. You Were Home, But I’ve Moved
Home is sometimes the person you are with and not the walls around you. But, if the home is broken and cannot be repaired, then sometimes the only thing you can do is focus on your goals and move forward in life. You cannot change people, but you can change how they show up in your life.
17. Your Loss, Love
You have tried everything you can possibly do to save your relationship and nothing is working, then it is their loss. You cannot convince someone to see your value, but you can value yourself and walk away if you aren’t being treated with respect and love. Those who cannot meet your standards, it is their loss.
18. Whatever Strays Was Never Meant To Stay
If your partner has strayed in the relationship and you value loyalty, then they aren’t meant to be in your life. Let them go and find someone who can give you the respect and appreciation you truly deserve. Without trust there is no us.
19. You Were Just A Temporary Pain, Not A Permanent Stain
Do not let the pain you endured in your relationship hold you back from loving again. The relationships you experience throughout your lifetime will be lessons of what you want and don’t want in your future. Use it to you advantage, but don’t stay stuck because no one deserves to have the much power over your happiness.Time heals all wounds.
20. I Thought You Were My Ride Or Die, But All You Did Was Make Me Cry. Goodbye.
Just when you thought you had met your soulmate, the rose colored glasses fall off and they aren’t who you thought they were. The passion may have been lit, but that won’t keep your relationship together and growing. Don’t waste another day if all they do is make you cry. As hard as it is, it is time to say goodbye.
21. Love Comes In All Shapes, Colors, And Sizes, But That Wasn’t Love.
If you aren’t being treated with love, respect and kindness, then trust your gut that is isn’t. Love doesn’t make you feel uneasy. It gives you positive vibes and makes you feel securely at peace.